If you patiently bear something for the sake of God or your testimony for Christ, you can be assured that it will be rewarded in heaven. No good thing you did for God will go unnoticed.
Christians cannot and should not compare their lives with others, especially unbelievers. We are set apart from this world and our lives can't be in the pattern of this world.
When we keep looking at our circumstances, people and struggles, we lose sight of the reality that this world is temporary. This is where impatience and intolerance creep in.
Romans 8:25 - But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for it.
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